Run from him:

sheabuttahgawd:

kairo-koutureee:
provoc-hoe-tive:
raindropirwin:
peachglitch:
•if he disrespects his mom
•if he disrespects blue collar workers
•if he doesn’t tip or leaves loose pennies
•if he is mean to animals
•if he doesn’t touch you in public
•if he won’t tell his friends about you
•if he says “I’ve never been with a ____ girl before.”
•if he won’t address his female friends by name instead just calls them “a friend”
•if all his exes “are psycho”
•if he’s never worked a day in his life
•if he chooses a drug over spending time with you
•if he disagrees with feminism
•if he’s white and he throws around the N word
•if he isn’t proud of what you do
•if he makes rape jokes
•if you tell him you haven’t shaved down there and he quickly changes his mind about giving you oral
•if he chooses the music or movies without asking what you think
•if he voluntarily shows up late to pick you up
•if you catch yourself googling “what is an abusive relationship?”
some girls need to hear this
• If they do not care about your feelings/opinion
• If you express discontent with their actions and they still do the SAME thing
• If they are not willing to talk it out
• If they put their hands on you
• If they force you into things you do not want to do
• If they try to tell you how you feel
• If they say you’re too ‘complicated’ ‘complex’ or ‘difficult’- when all you want is to work the relationship out
• If they feel that you’re even slightly less than them
• If their friends make you uncomfortable and they do not do a thing about it
• If their relationship with another ‘friend’ makes you uncomfortable and they do not act productively on it
• If you feel extreme discontent, sadness, or anger in a relationship and they do not care
LEAVE THEM
YOU DESERVE BETTER

National Domestic Violence Hotline#:
1-800-799-7233
Deaf National Domestic Violence Hotline IM or Email:
deafhelp@thehotline.org
“"Video Phone (Mon-Fri 9am-5pm):
1-855-812-1001
man except for two bullet points this described exactly my last relationship
Please take care of your hearts and your mind y'all..

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ragesyndrome:

DO NOT KISS A GIRL WHEN SHES MAD i am so tired of media portraying this as a good way to end an argument okie when ur partner is mad and yelling at u do not just kiss them to shut them up and make up okie how about u just fucking listen to your partner when theyre trying to tell u somethign

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oh my god, me,

bpdpiplup:

I feel like something that no one talks about with mental illness is that you challenge everyone. You get paranoid that they’ll leave so you push them, asking them for favors, purposely making them angry just to see if they’ll stay. You keep on pushing them until they snap because you want them to prove to you how much they care about you, and how much they would do for you. Then before you realize it you’ve pushed them to their limit without even realizing it. You do this all because you want reassurance that they won’t leave, or that they care, or that they’re not working for The Organization, or that you can trust them. It’s an awful thing that you don’t even realize you’re doing.

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Star Wars,

swan2swan:

cumaeansibyl:
spyderqueen:
persian-slipper:
darkmagyk:
Han is all “there’s to much Vader in him,” without mentioning that there is too much Vader in Leia too.
Like, Bail Organa, bless his poor poor soul, tried to politician the Vader out of her. He tried SO FUCKING HARD.
But the fact that she abandoned politics to be a General in the Resistance says a lot about her similarities to Anakin Skywalker.
See, people get it wrong. They assume because Luke got the blond hair and the lightsaber that he is Anakin’s child. He’s not. He’s Padme’s.
Leia, though. Leia is very much Anakin’s child. She is the one with the deep anger in her. She is the one who will bring ~~peace to her new empire~~ freedom and justice back to the galaxy whether the galaxy wants it or not. She is the one who commands armies and amasses followers as easy as breathing. She joined the Rebellion while she was in her teens. She is the one with the spirit of a warrior.
Don’t get me wrong; Bail Organa did his damnedest to raise her in the mold of her mother, fighting her battles in the halls of power with words as her weapons. And she was very good at it. But unlike Padme, Leia’s words always had an edge to them, her tone and meaning always a little too sharp, a little too angry.
Peace and mercy are the trademarks of Luke and Padme. Justice and order, obtained by whatever means necessary, are the marks of Leia and Anakin.
#you just know if she had a lightsaber on the death star she would have pulled a tusken massacre on the bridge #tarkin vader the techs everyone #dead as soon as she could reach them
How the throne room scene actually should’ve gone:
“If you will not turn to the Dark Side, perhaps she will.”
“Pffffthahahahaha yeah, okay Dad, let me know how that turns out. Look, the reason I’m here instead of her is because I want you alive and not a cloud of vaporized plastic. You know she strangled Jabba the Hutt with the chain he put around her neck, right? That’s what she does to people who try to control her. Better tell your Emperor you’re not allowed to have any more ideas.”
#this is so true it’s beautiful #I bet Vader almost felt glad every time Luke turned up with the lightsaber when they faced off #Vader was like ‘Oh thank the Force it’s the nice one that got the lightsaber skills’